When I came across this photo, I couldn't believe what I was seeing! This was not our wedding so I don't know all of the details. (A special thanks to Jennifer Woodbury for letting me use the photo for learning purposes.) ![](https://static.squarespace.com/static/52ec063ae4b0ed16944b7045/52ffc847e4b04a4825424752/52ffc848e4b04a4825424a6c/1350063488253/1000w/terrible%20videographer.jpeg)
It appears that the gentleman holding the tripod in front of the bride and groom is a friend of the family. He might have even volunteered to film the wedding ceremony for the couple. How great, right! It saves lots of money and gives him a job. I get that. I don't agree, but I get it. But obviously we have an issue. A professional videographer would NEVER, EVER be so obtrusive.
This photo actually makes me a little irritated because so often brides tell us that the reason that they don't want video is because they don't want a camera in their face all day. We don't work that way. We try to be as unobtrusive as we possibly can. A professional would know how to get the shots without being in the way. Professionals are also held to a higher standard. Churches place restrictions on us so that this doesn't happen (not that we would ever do this); they can't control what guests do. Thus the reason that we have this example of a bad situation.
Not only did he ruin the photographer's shot, but what did they guests see during this pivotal moment of the ceremony vows? So you save a little money, but yet it costs you in other ways.
I want to use this photo to help brides understand that it doesn't have to be this way. There are ways to get an amazing shot without being in the way. A professional videographer will be able to do this without you noticing that they are even around. This is what it looks like when you hire a professional videographer. This photo of the wedding ceremony came from David Shirk with Unplugged Photography. Do you see our cameras? We actually had 4. I don't even see one of ours.![](https://static.squarespace.com/static/52ec063ae4b0ed16944b7045/52ffc847e4b04a4825424752/52ffc848e4b04a4825424a6d/1350062606653/1000w/wedding%20ceremony%20ross%20bride%20bw.jpg)
My advice would just be to let your friends and family enjoy your wedding day and hire a professional videographer. In almost 10 years of business, we have NEVER had someone regret having a video, only not having one. Your wedding day will go by so fast (everyone says this because it is true); a professional wedding video will be something that you will treasure for years.